How Can A Professional Divorce Lawyer Support My Case?

Divorce can be tricky, and emotionally challenging for anybody. Whether you are the one who filed, or your divorce has come as a complete shock, it can be a big upcoming change in your life. You can seek support from family and friends to help you through such a challenging period, but you may find that you are having legal worries. If this is the case, our blog is here to explain the ways in which a divorce lawyer can support you. To learn more about legal support during a divorce, keep on reading.



An Overview Of Divorce & Separation

Deciding to get a divorce or separation, or being served divorce papers can be tough for either side of the relationship. It can signify the end of a chapter, and be quite emotionally challenging for those involved. If your family involves children, this can make things seem tricky. It’s important to handle your divorce in the right way so that you can avoid any conflicts, or handle them gracefully. The better you handle the divorce, the less likelihood of legal battles or disagreements in the future. Read below to hear our best advice for handling your divorce.

Deciding To Get A Divorce

Deciding to go through with a divorce can be a challenging time, and there may be a multitude of reasons contributing to your decision. Below are some of the most common reasons that people file for divorce, but ultimately this is individual to each relationship:

●    Arguing

●    Infidelity

●    Infertility

●    Lack of commitment

As we’ve just mentioned, there are a range of reasons as to why someone wants to file for divorce, and this can vary from relationship to relationship. When filing for divorce in the UK, there are certain rules that your marriage needs to abide by in order to file:

●    Your marriage is legally recognised in the United Kingdom

●    You are a UK resident

●    You have been married for at least 1 year

You may be filing for a specific or particular reason, however the reason for your divorce needs to come under one of these categories:

●    Unreasonable behaviour - This could include domestic abuse or any kind of behaviour that makes you feel you cannot live under the same roof as your partner anymore.

●    Desertion - Desertion is the term used to describe a situation where your partner left you at least two years ago.

●    Adultery - If your partner has been unfaithful during your relationship, this is a valid reason for filing for divorce.

●    Living situations - If you have not lived with your partner for more than two years and you want to file, your partner will need to agree to the divorce to begin the process. However, if you have not lived with your partner for over 5 years, you can file for divorce and they do not need to agree to the divorce.

Being Served Divorce Papers

If your partner ends up serving you divorce papers, it may come as a shock, or stir up a range of difficult emotions. It’s completely natural to feel a range of things after being served divorce papers, but it’s important to act rationally. If you are served divorce papers, here are some key things to keep in mind:

●    Don't lose your temper with your partner - As tempting as it may be to get angry at your partner, no good will come of this kind of reaction. Arguments and anger can only make the situation worse, and if your case ends up going to court, this may not work in your favour.

●    Don't ignore the papers - Yes, this does happen. Many people may go into a sense of denial or hurt after being served divorce papers, which is understandable, however ignoring the divorce papers will not make the situation go away. Your spouse will still be able to go ahead with the divorce regardless.

●    Don’t suddenly stop paying for things - Many people will act out of anger or hurt, but acting off emotion can cause us to make irrational decisions. You may share a car, mortgage, property or other assets with your spouse and while it may be tempting to stop paying your half of the assets, this can only make things worse. If you’re concerned about your assets, the best thing to do is seek legal expertise.

Seeking Legal Advice During Your Divorce: How Can A Lawyer Help Me?

When it comes to choosing legal services, choosing a lawyer that you trust and can depend on is vital. When you hire your divorce lawyer, it’s also crucial that you are open and honest with them about the details of your marriage and divorce. By helping your lawyer to understand the intricacies of your relationship, you stand a better chance of a positive outcome. 

It’s no secret that your legal representative will have the knowledge and skills to help you, but there are various ways in which a lawyer can support you through such an emotionally challenging time. Now we’ve covered some key advice regarding a divorce, it’s time to dive into how a lawyer can help you.

Guidance

You may lack any legal expertise yourself, and one of the great benefits of hiring a divorce lawyer is so that they can guide you through the process. A divorce is emotionally challenging as it is, and having to go through a series of paperwork and meetings can seem overwhelming. Luckily, a divorce lawyer or solicitor can.

Documentation

There are quite a few documents associated with divorce, such as the divorce petition and final disclosures, which can be confusing and intimidating to tackle alone. By hiring a lawyer to help you, they can help you fill out the relevant documents and ensure that everything is organised properly. They will ensure that you haven’t missed anything important, making sure your divorce keeps running smoothly.

An Objective Third Party

The emotional strain of a divorce can affect you mentally and your emotions may influence some of your decisions. By hiring a lawyer, you have a knowledgeable and neutral third party to give you advice. This can be reassuring during such a difficult time, and your divorce lawyer can look at the situation objectively before giving you their advice. You can always rest assured that your lawyer is giving you advice in your best interest, and that will hopefully result in the best possible outcome.

Negotiation

When it comes to assets and negotiations like child support or property division, you and your spouse may not be seeing eye to eye on certain things. Having a neutral third party during negotiations can help to resolve things amicably and divide up assets fairly. If you are struggling to divide things fairly, your legal representative may recommend mediation to help you solve the asset dispute.

Court Representation

In the unfortunate event that your divorce case ends up going to court, having a legal representative that you trust is crucial. They will be responsible for representing your side and getting you the outcome that you deserve while protecting your rights.

Child Custody Issues

When it comes to child custody, things can get tricky and disagreements may be more prevalent between you and your spouse. Child custody cases also need to be handled sensitively, so that parents don’t have to argue over custody issues. Most parents are able to come to an agreement regarding their children and arrange a fair custody split.

DJP Solicitors: Legal Services You Can Rely On

If you’re having a hard time with your divorce and want to seek out some legal support, look no further. Based in the heart of Aberdeen, DJP solicitors are here to help. Our experienced divorce and separation solicitors are here to help you with your divorce distresses.

To learn more about our divorce and separation services, or to read about some of our other areas of legal expertise, you can check out our website! Alternatively, you can contact us today to speak to one of our team members directly. We will be happy to help you find the legal services you need.